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Elevate Your Fashion Game: 6 Easy Steps to Discovering Your Personal Style

Fri, 30 Jun 2023 10:12:00 -0500

It can be very frustrating getting dressed for the day when you have no idea what your own personal style is.

You will feel bored and uninspired by your clothes and putting together a stylish outfit will feel like a chore, so you will inevitably just stop trying and just throw on a boring outfit.

It can be confusing and overwhelming but I have put this guide together to help you find your personal style and kiss those style ruts goodbye.

WHAT IS PERSONAL STYLE?

Personal style is when the clothes and accessories you wear, reflect your lifestyle and who you are. Your clothes should speak to who you truly are. Your unique style will help you to express to who you are and also give can you the confidence to help you towards your goals. It can also connect you to a community of like-minded people. Style is timeless and does not and should not look like anyone else…and this is what makes it your own personal style.

Imagine opening your closet and easily finding an outfit you love. All the pieces of your closet reflect your style and make you feel chic and confident when you get dressed for the day.

This is the type of closet I want to help you build. And it’s possible when you implement these next 6 steps.

HOW TO FIND YOUR PERSONAL STYLE

Are you bored and uninspired by your current wardrobe?

Do you want to put on an outfit that excites you and truly reflects the woman you see in your mind?

This is for you if you want to:

Wear clothes that reflect your personality
Don’t know how to define your style and are bored of your current clothes
Need and want to step up your style game

If you are tired of just having a closet full of clothes but nothing to wear keep reading to find out your personal style and finally have a closet full of clothes that you will love and be excited to wear.

1. ASSESS YOUR CURRENT WARDROBE

You can’t begin to know your personal style or what you like until you see what you already have. See what items you really love and also what items in your closet you could care less for.

When I started my journey of completely changing my style I had to come to terms with why I didn’t have anything in my closet that truly reflected me. I noticed that even though I had a closet full of clothes…I never really had anything to wear and this is why:

Most of the items I had were all trendy pieces. I suffered from cute clothes syndrome and would literally just pick up any cute item I saw in the stores especially if it was on sale.

• I was missing a ton of basic essentials (although I didn’t know wtf essential were at this time)
• I had old clothes that didn’t fit or had holes taking up much-needed space
• Nothing was organized and my closet was in complete chaos

2. FIND YOUR STYLE INSPIRATION

Create a Pinterest board and pin any fashion and outfit inspo that calls to you. Don’t overthink this part. Just pin what grabs your attention and excites you. Only pin things you would actually wear

Find what those things have in common…

Are you pinning a lot of blazers?

Those items are part of your personal brand

Make a note of what items you have on your Pinterest board

You can mix and match any aesthetic. It’s not about the aesthetic so much as it’s about what items you gravitate towards.

You don’t have to fit yourself into a box. You can mix and match to your heart’s content and create your personal style.

Some places to look for inspo

Movies
Celebrities
Influencers
Fashion Magazines

3. MAKE A SHOPPING PLAN

Before you go out and buy clothes you need to make a plan. This will help you shop for the items you like and need and help you not just pick up clothes you don’t need on a whim.

• Set a budget – decide what you are willing to invest for new clothes
• Determine what your clothing needs are so you can find clothes that fit your lifestyle & aesthetic: your clothing needs to reflect who you are and where you spend your time.

You need to think about where you spend the most time and that should be reflected in the clothes in your closet. If you spend most of your time at work then it makes sense that you have a majority of work clothing in your closet.

Make sure you keep your lifestyle in mind when defining your style because you want to create a wardrobe that reflects your reality.

If you are wondering what basics you should start with you can check out my blog post: 47 Closet Essentials Every Woman Needs.

4. TIME TO GO SHOPPING

It’s finally time to shop. This can be exciting but also overwhelming.

So here are a few tips for when you are shopping at a physical store.

• Know exactly what you are shopping for and be very intentional about finding just those specific items
• You do not have to buy everything all at once. Pick 5 items you really want/need and buy those items. You can always shop for more items later on.
• Always and I mean ALWAYS when possible try on every item.
• If you can not try on items, make sure you check the return policy and try them on at home.
• Return or exchange items that don’t work out. Do not let them sit in your closet taking up valuable space.

When shopping online – know your measurements and always check the sizing chart. (All brands generally have their own sizes because they use different fit models.

There’s just no way to have universal sizing because all bodies are different so it’s a must to try on everything!)

Always check the return policies on any store you purchase from.

Try on everything once you receive the items, keep what you love, and return what don’t.

5. PRACTICE PUTTING OUTFITS TOGETHER

Getting great at styling outfits takes practice and stepping out of your comfort zone to combine and create outfits you haven’t tried before.

Putting together an outfit is a process and the only way to figure out your style is by trial and error. Trying it on and mixing items

This is how I have found some of my favorite outfits in my closet, by pairing items together that I normally wouldn’t have.

Putting together outfits will become easier the more you practice! Don’t skip this step. It’s important!

6.WORK ON YOUR CONFIDENCE

Fashion is subjective…who cares what everyone else thinks…just be you. Don’t be afraid to put yourself out there. Don’t be afraid to stand out. When you can confidently be yourself, it won’t matter what anyone else thinks or says about your style.

It can take courage to stand out in a world where we have been taught to fit in. Do not be someone who fits in and blends in with the crowd. Be you and live your best life in style!

And no matter what anyone else says about your style…the only thing that matters is that you love what you are wearing and it is an outfit that perfectly screams you.

"Confidence is when you truly love who you are, you believe in your self-worth and no one's opinions or comments can change how you view yourself" - Antonet Kruse

Final Notes

I really hope that this inspired you to change up your style and show up for yourself every day! Leave a comment below.

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• A summer closet essentials shopping checklist

• A fall closet essentials shopping checklist

• A winter closet essentials shopping checklist

• And a seasonless closet essentials shopping checklist

Never Worry About What to Wear Again: 47 Closet Must-Haves for Endless Outfit Options

Wed, 05 Jul 2023 13:00:00 -0500

Every fashion-forward individual needs a solid foundation, so start by stocking up on classic essentials. Think timeless pieces like a little black dress that can effortlessly take you from day to night, a crisp white button-down shirt that screams sophistication, and a well-tailored blazer that instantly adds a touch of elegance to any outfit. These essentials will never go out of style and will serve as the backbone of your fashionable closet.

Make your closet more fashionable year after year by investing in these must-have clothing and accessory items. In this blog post you will find every basic you need to complete your closet.

1. What are closet essentials? And why do I need them?

A closet essential is basic clothing pieces that are the foundation of any great outfit. They have a timeless quality to them and are very versatile because they can be dressed up or down depending on the occasion and what you’re wearing.
An example of a closet essential is a simple black dress. You can wear it to the office, out on date night, or even to a funeral.

While we all love trends, no closet is complete without essentials. They serve as a foundation on which to build throughout the year by adding seasonal and trendier pieces, or alternatively you can use them entirely on their own as your year-round wardrobe. These are things that will change from season to season and will be the basis for most of your outfits.

There are many different types of closet essentials, but the following are the most common:

TOPS

• TEES BOTH SHORT AND LONG SLEEVE IN NEUTRAL COLORS

Classic tees are a closet staple. One of the easiest items to dress up or down. It’s better to have these shirts in a variety of neutral colors, sleeve lengths and necklines. But a great place to start is with a classic white, black or gray tee.

• STRIPED TEE

A striped tee is a classic that is just so chic. Perfect to wear throughout the year. So grab a short sleeve one, a long sleeve one, or both and you are good to go!

• WHITE BUTTON UP

White buttons up are a staple items no matter the season. They are perfect for layering under a sweater or crop top.

• BODYSUITS

Bodysuits are a great foundational piece. They are so versatile! They can easily be worn with skirts, pants, under blazers and kimonos. Added bonus they are already tucked so you don’t have to worry about how to tuck it.

• TANKS & CROP TOPS

Tanks and crop tops are great pieces to always have in your closet. They can be dressed up and down. Good to have them in a variety of colors, fabrics and necklines.

• CHAMBRAY SHIRTS

Chambray shirts are another yearly closet staple that are classic and timeless. I love to dress up a chambray shirt. The outfit combination possibilities are endless.

• TURTLENECK & MOCK NECKS

Turtlenecks and mock necks are great to have in your wardrobe. You really just need a quality turtleneck/mock-neck in black and white. They are great for the spring, fall and winter seasons.

• SWEATERS & CARDIGANS

Sweaters and cardigans are perfect for adding a cozy feeling when you need extra warmth in your wardrobe. Great for spring, fall and winter.

BOTTOMS

• BLUE JEANS

Blue jeans are a staple that will always be needed. There are so many different cuts and styles. A great place to start is by having a dark wash and a light wash. A dark wash comes off as more polished and light wash more casual. I won’t say you should have one fit over the other as this is based on personal prefence and body shape. My personal preference for jeans are high waisted skinny jeans. I also love a good wide leg jean.

• BLACK & WHITE PANTS

Black and white pants are a must. They are the easiest neutrals to work with because they go with every color and pattern. And they can be worn year round.

• TROUSERS

Trousers are classic and chic. They make any outfit look polished even if you pair it with a basic tee. You can’t go wrong with a great pair of fitted trousers.

• SHORTS

Having a few quality pairs of shorts in your closet is a must. Jean shorts are great for the spring and summer. Leather shorts are perfect for fall and winter.

• SKIRTS

MINI • MIDI •MAXI

Skirts are so versatile and great to wear all year long. Having a few in neutral colors (black, white, beige or gray) and different hemlines will add so many options to your outfits.

DRESSES

•LBD & LWD

There’s a reason little black dresses are essential and that’s because they are so versatile. You can wear them to work, out on a date…and to drinks with the girls.

The little white dress is also a great staple to have. Perfect to wear in the spring and summer and great for sunny beach vacations.

•SLIP DRESS

Another classic essential that you can wear all year. You can easily layer this over a white tee, wear alone or under a blazer. The are so many ways you can wear this versatile piece.

• FLORAL DRESS

Having classic but simple floral dress with a clean silhouette is a staple you can incorporate year after year.

OUTERWEAR

• LEATHER JACKET

A classic leather jacket will never go out of style and will have so many possible uses in outfits. They instantly add the right amount of edginess to any outfit.

• BLAZERS

Blazers are a closet must have. They can take any outfit and make it look so polished and chic. Perfect to layer over a dress, trousers and jeans.

• CARGO JACKET

Cargo jackets are warm and versatile and can help pull together an outfit. The perfect combo of fashion and function.

• TRENCH COAT

You can never go wrong with a trench coat. They are a staple that is good all year round. You can opt for lighter weight trench coats in the spring/summer and heavier weight trench coats for fall/winter.

• ANORAK OR RAIN JACKET

These jackets are perfect for those completely expected rainy weather days.

• JEAN JACKET

Jean jackets are just so versatile and are great for layering over basic wardrobe pieces.

•SWEATSUIT & ATHLEISURE

Sweatsuits are great for days where you just want to be comfy and relaxed. Perfect for running daily errands and hanging out on the couch binging tv shows.

Athleisure: comfy + chic…the perfect combo for any day of the week.

SWIMSUIT

Swimsuits are a closet must. Finding a great quality swimsuit that you can wear year after year is a great investment into your wardrobe.

Whether you choose a classic one piece or a bikini. Get what you know you will wear over and over.

PJS

Pajamas are just so comfy and perfect to put on after a long day of work and life.

ACCESSORIES

• NEUTRAL BAGS

Structured purses in neutral colors go with any outfit.

• SUNGLASSES

Sunglasses are the perfect addition to any stylish outfit. And a must year round to protect your eyes from the sun.

• JEWELRY

Dainty jewelry can be worn all year and for any occasion. Dainty rings, necklaces, bracelets and earrings are great accessories to add to your closet. Metal color should vary depending on your skin undertones.

• HATS

Hats are another accessory that can be worn year round. Classic styles and colors will always be in style.

• BELTS

Belts are a great addition to have in your closet. Perfect combo of fashion and function. They can complete any outfit.

• SCARVES

Scarves have a multitude of uses, you can use them as a hair tie, neck ties, purse decor, and even wear it as a top. There is no limit to what you can do with a scarf.

• SOCKS

Socks are essential for protecting your feet from rubbing in your shoes, they are are great for absorbing moisture for the health of your feet and shoes. Great for keeping your feet warm in the fall, winter, and spring.

BRAS & PANTIES & SHAPEWEAR

What you wear under your clothes matter. So make sure you get appropriate fitting bra and panties for your outfits. You can’t go wrong with seamless panties.

Shapewear is great for enhancing your body’s curves and giving you support where it’s most needed.

SHOES

• BLACK BOOTS

Black boots are classic and go with every outfit. From combat to ankle they are very versatile and much needed for a complete closet.

• FASHION FLAT

Flat sandals are perfect for those days where you will be on your feet for long periods of time. Invest in a good leather pair and you are sure to have a shoe that lasts.

• ALL WHITE SNEAKERS

You just need all white sneakers year round! They are perfect for pretty much any outfit.

• MULES

Mules are timeless, classy and effortlessly chic. They give any outfit an elegant touch.

2. Tips for Buying Closet Essentials

•YOU DON'T HAVE TO BUY EVERYTHING

Whether you are just starting out or you are upgrading your closet, the process takes time. You don’t need to spend all your money or buy all of the items on this list. Buy what you like and know you will wear. This list is more of a guide to help you when you do go to build a complete wardrobe. You will know what items to look for and what items to skip.

•BUY SECONDHAND

A great and more affordable way to add essentials to your closet is to shop for them secondhand. It’s a great way to get more bang for your buck and to fill in gaps in your closet.

Almost every blazer I own was bought at a thrift store. Like this beautiful beige blazer that I bought for only $4.86.

•OPT FOR QUALITY OVER QUANTITY

Essentials are the pieces you want to last year after year. So make sure to buy pieces that are made to last. You do not want to have to keep rebuying basic items for you closet year after year.

•FILL IN GAPS FIRST BEFORE BUYING DUPLICATES

Use this list to fill in the gaps in your closet first before you buy duplicate items. And what I mean by duplicates would be buying a well fitted white button up and then buying an oversized white button up. Or buying two pair of dark washed jeans in two silhouettes. You want to fill in the gaps first and then add in more similar items.

BUY ITEMS YOU KNOW YOU WILL WEAR

I listed that jean jackets are a closet essential but I do not own one. And that is because I just don’t find them to be my style and I know I wouldn’t wear it often enough to justify having it in my closet. I make it a rule to buy items I love and will wear.

Final Notes

It’s easy to get overwhelmed with all of the different fashion choices you have in your closet. With a little preparation, however, it is possible to build a versatile wardrobe that will make getting ready in the morning much easier. Use these 47 essential closet pieces to develop a basic foundation for your wardrobe and create outfits with ease.

Download the checklist so you can easily refer back to it when you are looking through your closet and going shopping.

17 Dazzling New Year's Eve Outfits Guaranteed to Make A Statement

Sat, 25 Nov 2023 22:41:00 -0600

✨For most of us, a New Year equals a new start. A new year is a fresh start! New Year's Eve is just around the corner, and what better way to celebrate a New Year than by dazzling in a show-stopping outfit.✨

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1. Black Cropped Blazer + Black Turtleneck + Silver Star Skirt

Making a Statement with a Silver Star Skirt:

The true showstopper of this outfit is the silver star skirt. A bold accessory that adds a playful and eye-catching element to this outfit. This statement piece is perfect to wear to your New Year's events. The skirt's unique design makes it perfect for special occasions, parties, or any event where you want to stand out from the crowd.

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2. Green Blouse + Sequin Skirt

You can’t help but turn heads in the elegant but sophisticated look. It’s giving I know what I want and I can’t be stopped.

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3. Rhinestone Mesh Dress + Black Crop Top + Black Faux Leather Skirt

Nothing short of stunning in this beautiful look that is guaranteed to have you feeling yourself.

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4. Silver chain bra + Black Faux Leather Blazer + Jeans

Basics plus a wow factor top = this stunning outfit

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5. Black Dress + Rhinestone Leggings

All black outfits will always be in! The rhinestone leggings make this outfit stand out in the best way possible.

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6. White Blazer + Silver Boots + Silver Skirt

Silver and white is just a whole vibe that you need to get in on.

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7. Silver Chainmail Top + Black Leather Pants

Ohh la la. Stand out in this sexy outfit.

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8. Sequin Blazer Dress + Black Heels

Feel like a 1920s chic gangster in this beautiful sequin blazer dress.

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9. Black Blazer + Silver Boots + Black Crop Top + Black Shorts

Black and silver is the perfect combo to ring in the New Year!

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10. White Corset Top + Silver Sequin Skirt

Another beautiful combo that will turn heads.

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11. Black Blazer + Silver Boots + Silver Belt

Walk in knowing you look amazing and will be getting tons of compliments from the girlies.

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12. Black Dress + Hot Pink Heels

There’s something so fun about wearing hot pink. It just gives this outfit that extra oomph.

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13. Silver Skirt + White Button Up Crop Top + Silver Boots

Stand out know matter what when you are wearing these silver boots! All eyes on you!

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14. White Blazer Dress + Rhinestone Leggings

It’s giving classy woman who gives no fucks.

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15. Black Sequin Blazer + Black Pants + Pink Satin Pumps

This outfit is so stunning. Perfect for a night out on the town.

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16. Silver Chainmail Dress + Pink Faux Fur Coat

This dress is guaranteed to turn up your confidence!

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17. Silver Sequin Pants + White Fuzzy Crop Top

Comfy and chic is what this outfit is giving.

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As the clock ticks down to midnight, remember that your New Year's Eve outfit is not just about what you wear; it's a reflection of your excitement for the possibilities the new year holds. So, whether you choose sequins, faux fur, sparkly skirts, or a classic all black outfit, make sure it embodies your style, personality, and the fabulous journey that awaits. Here's to slaying into the New Year with confidence, glamour, and a wardrobe that's as fierce as you are! Cheers to a fashionable and fabulous 2024! 🥂✨

Merry & Bright: Unveiling 21 Perfect Christmas Party Looks

Sun, 26 Nov 2023 23:26:00 -0600

🎁✨'Tis the season to be fabulous, and as the invitations roll in, the quest for the perfect holiday party outfit begins! Whether you're attending an intimate family gathering, a glittering office soirée, or a lively New Year's Eve bash, the spotlight is on you to shine as bright as the festive lights.🎉✨

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1. Red Silk Dress

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2. Silver Cowboy Hat + Silver skirt + White Rhinestone mesh top

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3. Rhinestone Mesh Dress + Black Bandeau Top + Black Faux Leather Skirt

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4. Black Dress + Black Blazer + Gold Boots

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5. Red Turtleneck + Black Skirt + Thigh High Black Boots

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6. Black Button Up + Gold Sequin Skirt

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7. Black Turtleneck + Black Trench Coat + Houndstooth skirt + Red Boots

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8. White Shirt + White Blazer + Sequin Pants

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9. Sequin Blazer + Black Faux Leather Pants

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10. Gold Bandage Dress

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11. Gold Sequins Jumpsuit

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12. Black Blazer + Gold Skirt

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13. Green Glitter Dress

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14. Green Velvet Dress

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15. Plaid Blazer + White Button Up + Patterned Tights

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16. Red Three Piece Suit

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17. Silver Sequin Dress + White Cowboy Boots & Hat

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18. Red Beret + Red Trench Coat + Black Boots

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19. White Sequin Dress

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20. Red Mock Neck Dress + Black Fuzzy Heels

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21. Red Sweater Dress

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25 Mesmerizing Romantic Date Night Outfits to Melt Hearts

Tue, 02 Jan 2024 21:29:00 -0600

💋Enjoy an unforgettable night of romance and kisses that take your breath away when you step out in any of these enchanting Valentine’s Day Romantic Outfits. Whether you're planning a cozy night in or a dreamy dinner date, these outfits are guaranteed to ignite the flames of passion and leave you feeling like the best-dressed woman in the room. Read on to explore a beautiful collection of textures, colors, and silhouettes designed to make your date’s heart skip a beat. 💋💗

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